2024 Annual Reflections: On Federal, Family, Faith, Films, Fitness, and (New) Frontiers

 2024 Reflections: On Federal, Family, Faith, Films, Fitness, and New Frontiers

By Tony Astro

Continuing an annual tradition, I began over a decade ago when I first embarked on the exciting world of blogging, vlogging, and podcasting, I'm delighted to share my reflections from all 2024. This year's journey has been particularly enriching, filled with new experiences and personal growth. From navigating the complexities of federal service to cherishing precious moments with family, deepening my faith, embracing fitness, and finding inspiration in films, I've embraced life with passion and purpose, and hope to inspire others to do the same. You can even explore my early forays into podcasting with "Building Your Brand to Life" on various platforms.

Photo Highlights - The Year that was 2024: Thankful for the Challenges and Transition to be Better in 2025

click this to the few photo slide recap of 2024 

Answering the Call: A New Mission in Federal Service

This year marked a significant and somewhat unexpected transition in my career. After years of thriving as a civilian, entrepreneur, and private counselor, I embarked on a new path within the federal government, joining the U.S. Navy Fleet and Family Readiness in Norfolk. This shift was a drastic one, requiring me to adapt from the freedom and flexibility of self-employment to the more structured environment of federal service.

While adapting to new processes and procedures has been an ongoing process, I'm driven by the profound sense of purpose I've found in helping service members navigate their own transitions to civilian life. Over the past 10 years, I've encountered many veterans who went through the Transition Assistance Program (TAP) class. Unfortunately, I've observed that a significant number of them only seemed to find success when they became dependent on benefits or secured federal employment. This observation has solidified my mission: to empower veterans to forge their own paths and thrive as independent civilian. 

Some of the best time I have even after being a real civilian as a counselor is when I know I am making an impact to one person at a time that they can remember.

Equipping veterans with essential life skills and providing them with strong mentorship and genuine support is crucial for their successful transition. I believe that fostering strong relationships with counselors can make a real difference in their lives, and I'm committed to being that supportive presence for the service members I work with.

With an upcoming deployment to an aircraft carrier on the horizon, I'm eager to bring my "3M Missions" – entertain, educate, and encourage – to the high seas. My hope is that through these efforts, I can help our veterans see their transition not as an ending, but as a new beginning filled with possibilities.

Family and Field Trips: The Anchor of My Life

We have actually cut down our travel since being employed, as free time drastically went down but we make it a point to spend time with family and see the world and fulfill our bucket list (see our past Travel Vlogs and Adventures on YouTube and Instagram)

Family remains the cornerstone of my life. This year brought both joys and challenges as we celebrated milestones and navigated new transitions. Sam, my son, began his junior year at Virginia Tech, and we marked this new chapter with a car to support his growing independence. Our recent and summer travels to Blacksburg, Puerto Rico, KeyWest, Virgin Islands, Carribean Islands, Tampa created precious memories and strengthened our family bond. Tampa, in particular, holds a special place in our hearts thanks to the warm hospitality of my cousin Iza.

We also faced the difficult but necessary abrupt decision of moving my mom to a nursing home closer to home. This transition, while emotionally challenging, has brought peace of mind knowing she is receiving excellent care and that we can visit her more frequently. It's a blessing to have her nearby, surrounded by love and support.

Faith & Family: A Constant Companion

Family time with Sam and while we travel, we go to local  churches to commune and find the real sense of the place we travel not just for faith, feeding our soul but connecting.

Faith continues to be a guiding force in our lives, even when we're away from our home church, Grace Church, and our beloved Sunday and Thursday groups. Whether we're in Blacksburg, New York City, Tampa, or DC, we make it a point to visit local churches wherever our travels take us. These visits are more than just about enjoying a cup of coffee (though we appreciate that too!). They're about connecting with new communities and experiencing different expressions of faith. We've even been fortunate enough to hear sermons by renowned pastors like Rick Warren and John Hagee. These experiences enrich our faith and remind us that God's presence is with us wherever we go.

Fitness, Zen, and the Pursuit of Well-being

My Daily Walk (now down to weekends and weeknights ONLY) was my constant physical activity other than the ZumVA

Fitness this year has been about embracing my authentic self and finding joy in everyday movement. My daily walks with Bentley and Blinky offer moments of peace and reflection, while dancing and sharing videos on TikTok and Instagram have become unexpected avenues for inspiring others.

Looking ahead, I'm excited to embrace a more robust fitness regime, taking advantage of the Virginia Beach Recreation Center's full line of group fitness classes. I'm also committed to prioritizing my overall well-being by continuing my intermittent fasting, minimizing technology entertainment, and cultivating a more Zen-like approach to life. This includes adjusting my sleeping habits to ensure I get at least 7 hours of quality sleep each night, a significant shift from my previous 5-hour routine.  So far 6 lbs. lost but 6 months of confidence gain. 😊

Films: Mirrors to Life

As always, films have provided a unique lens for reflection and growth this year. From the cultural immersion of "Shogun" to the powerful themes of resilience and teamwork in "Lioness: Beware the Old Soldier," each story has resonated with the lessons I strive to embody in my work and personal life.

Here are some recent ratings I gave at IMDB

In keeping with my annual tradition, this year again, I've compiled 24 of the best for 2024 - a comprehensive film review I have watched with Myla - highlighting the most impactful movies we've watched together this year (I can never watch a movie alone - I have to have a conversation during the movie). You can find the complete list here:

2024-annual-movie-review-what-to-watch  

Here are a few standout films that have particularly resonated with me:

• Shogun (My Rating: 10 | IMDb: 8.6): A captivating tale of adaptability and cultural understanding, mirroring the challenges and triumphs of life transitions.
• Lioness: Beware the Old Soldier (My Rating: 9 | IMDb: 8.6): A powerful portrayal of trust, teamwork, and the courage to face adversity.
• Dune: Part Two (My Rating: 7 | IMDb: 8.5): A thought-provoking exploration of balancing personal growth with duty and responsibility.

New Frontiers and Future Aspirations

Some of my Public Branded Social platforms since 2010 with total stagnant followers of 35K

As I look forward to 2025, I'm filled with anticipation for new adventures and opportunities. I'm eager to travel more, explore new horizons, and leverage my recent credentials as a counselor and public speaker to make a greater impact. I envision creating more substantive content in the cloud, sharing my insights and experiences with a wider audience.

One exciting new frontier is transforming my previous enterprise into a community relations avenue to serve veterans during my free time. I plan to utilize my existing platforms – Commercewise, Tonyastro.com, and all my social media channels, including my Navy Counselor Page built in 2010 at Facebook @tonyastro – to connect with and support veterans in their transition to civilian life. This will allow me to extend my mission beyond my official duties and make a difference in the lives of even more veterans.

Because this plan involves repurposing existing resources and leveraging my free time, it will actually allow me to be more efficient and focused during my work hours at FFSC. This shift will drastically cut down our nightly movie watching, freeing up time and mental energy to dedicate to my work. I believe this will not only prevent any negative impact on my workload but, in fact, enhance my job performance and strengthen my work relationships.

One of the assessments my company Commercewise  created I wanted to share is the CQ Assessment that may or may not impacts how people think based on their culture, gender, generation, religion and not just their aptitude.  More effective than DEI programs in institutions.

I'm also excited to share my expertise as a Global Career Development Facilitator, a Dale Carnegie Presenter graduate coach, and a Cultural Intelligence consultant. I believe these skills and perspectives can be valuable resources for veterans navigating the complexities of the civilian workforce. I plan to offer workshops, webinars, and individual consultations through my online platforms, empowering veterans to build fulfilling and successful careers.

And finally, I'm looking forward to embracing my true self more fully in the year ahead. After spending the past 12 months focused on adapting to a new environment and trying to fit in, I'm ready to step into my authenticity and let my true colors shine. This means expressing myself more freely, pursuing my passions with renewed vigor, and connecting with others on a deeper level.

My focus remains on serving others – whether through my federal career, cherishing moments with family, pursuing fitness, deepening my faith, or simply spreading joy through platforms like @tontiktalk and @astrofamilytube.

To everyone who has journeyed with me this year – thank you. Your encouragement and presence mean the world to me. Here's to another year of growth, connection, and embracing life with passion and purpose.

Until next time - have a great run of 2025!

Tony Astro

25 Essential Alternative and Official Resources for Veterans Transitioning to Civilian Life 2025

Transitioning from active duty to civilian life is a significant journey filled with opportunities and challenges. To support you and your families during this time, I've compiled a comprehensive list of 25 proven resources with strong backing and reputable leadership. These organizations are dedicated to meeting every need of veterans and their families—from mentorship and employment to health care and financial assistance. Each resource includes essential information, direct links, and comparable official programs. Let's embark on this journey together!

From Launching Startups to Serving Veterans: The Big Difference of being an Entrepreneur, a Civilian & a Federal Employee (My Annual Christmas Reflections 2024)

Maligayang Pasko, everyone!  (That's Merry Christmas in Tagalog, for those who don't know. Gotta represent my Filipino roots!)

This Christmas, I'm reflecting on my unconventional journey – from scaling businesses and launching startups to serving veterans and bridging gaps as a Filipino American entrepreneur and federal contractor. It's a challenging transition and journey that goes beyond the bottom line, fueled by a passion for giving back and finding deeper purpose this Christmas season.

Recent Christmas Week 2024 with mom's new home 

As the aroma of lechon, arroz caldo / lugaw (that is my Christmas potluck tomorrow by the way), lumpia (our potluck from last night's Sam Friends and Parent's party - see photo) and pancit fill the air, and the sounds of Jose Mari Chan's Christmas carols (yes enjoy the Original Pilipino English Christmas carol background while you read my blog) waft through the house, I can't help but reflect on this past year. It's been a wild ride, full of twists and turns, culminating today my 1st year anniversary in my official check-in at Bldg U93 Norfolk Naval Base as a Government Contractor.

December 2024 Roadtrip with Mom's from her last home, last Christmas.

Now, you all know I've worn many hats in my life. Navy veteran, entrepreneur, counselor, educator, government contractor and now federal employee. And let me tell you, this transition from the "free-for-all" of the civilian world to the structured environment of federal work has been a difficult but fulfilling experience. It's like stepping back into the military, with the routines, the chain of command, and the leaders together with co-workers who still carry that military aura. But here's the interesting thing: it's not quite the same. There's this undercurrent of "freedom" – you know, "Do what you want," "Let's vote on it" – but it's a bit of an illusion. It's like they give you a taste of freedom, but within a very defined box.

Having navigated both worlds – the military for 23 years, the corporate (both at Amex & Jobmetrix) and and for 12 years - entrepreneurial world, and now the federal government – I've developed a unique perspective. It's like looking at life through a kaleidoscope, seeing the same elements rearranged in different patterns.

And speaking of the entrepreneurial world, I can't help but feel a sense of pride when I think about Mvoss Creation. What started as a dream that my wife, Myla, and I shared has now blossomed into a nationwide success story. Myla's at the helm now, and she's absolutely crushing it! Mvoss Creation has become the go-to source for branded merchandise, not just here in Virginia, but for federal, state, and local organizations and universities across the country. It's incredibly inspiring to see her passion and dedication take the company to new heights.

Of course, I can't forget my other ventures (it is currently on-pause): Fusionmeet, the cultural networking platform that brings people together, and Commercewise by Tony Astro, my consulting company where I get to share my expertise and help businesses thrive. It's been an amazing journey, and I'm grateful for every opportunity I've had to make a difference.

And speaking of perspectives, my experience with the REISIC assessment has really opened my eyes to the challenges veterans face when transitioning to civilian life. It's not always easy to translate military skills and experience into the civilian world, and sometimes, the resources available aren't as up-to-date as they could be.

Here are a few key differences that stand out:

• Structure is King: Just like in the military, the federal government loves its protocols and procedures. Everything is by the book, and there's a process for everything. It reminds me of my time at the Department of Defense Fleet & Family Support Center, where I was managing military data across various systems. It was all about maintaining that structure to ensure smooth operations. (And let's be honest, with a PhD, I appreciate a good system!)
• The Chain of Command is Alive and Well: Hierarchy is important in both the military and the federal government. It's about clear communication and efficient execution. It takes me back to my days as a military chief career counselor, supervising 50 counselors for thousands of personnel. We achieved a 98% career satisfaction rate, and I believe that clear chain of command played a crucial role.
• Job Security is a Priority: One thing I appreciate about federal work is the stability. It's a lot like the military in that sense. You're not constantly worried about layoffs or downsizing. My current role requires a Secret Clearance and access to military personnel records, which adds another layer of security.
• Service is the Common Thread: Both the military and the federal government are driven by a sense of service. It's about contributing to something larger than yourself. At my current federal job, I conduct weekly workshops on transition, benefits, education, and job counseling. It's all about supporting our military personnel, and that resonates deeply with me.
• Benefits are a Blessing: Just like the military, the federal government offers comprehensive benefits. It's definitely a major perk compared to the often unpredictable world of entrepreneurship.

Besides being an Educator & Counselor, FFSC also do outreach
during career week at Naval Station Norfolk, marketing our life skills programs.

Now, let's talk about entrepreneurship. It's a whole different ball game.

The Upsides:

• Freedom to Fly: You're the captain of your own ship. You make the decisions, you set the course. When I was the Marketing Director at Mvoss Creation, I had the freedom to create and execute innovative marketing plans, resulting in a 30% increase in client acquisition.
• Earning Potential Unleashed: Entrepreneurship offers the potential for unlimited financial growth. I've collaborated with non-profits to create 12 new brands, and the financial rewards were significant.
• Creativity Knows No Bounds: No bureaucratic red tape to stifle your innovation. You can bring your ideas to life without jumping through hoops. I remember pioneering social media campaigns that resulted in a 50% increase in online engagement. That's the power of creative freedom.
• Flexibility is Your Friend: You set your own hours, you create your own work-life balance. I've managed to juggle my time to help over 150 business owners achieve success, all while maintaining a flexible schedule.
• Satisfaction Beyond Measure: There's nothing quite like building something from the ground up and watching it thrive. I've engineered marketing strategies that boosted client revenue by 25%, and that sense of accomplishment is priceless.

The Downsides:

• Risk is Your Constant Companion: Entrepreneurship is inherently risky. You could lose it all. Even with my successes, the financial risks were always present.
• Long Hours are the Norm: Be prepared to put in the time, especially in the beginning. When I was striving for that 30% increase in client acquisition, it meant a lot of late nights and long hours.
• Uncertainty Can Be a Rollercoaster: Income can be unpredictable, and there's no guaranteed paycheck. I remember the ups and downs of client engagements and the financial uncertainty that came with it.
• You're the Jack of All Trades: As an entrepreneur, you wear all the hats. You're the manager, the accountant, the HR department, and everything in between. Managing contracts and staying compliant with all the rules and regulations can be overwhelming.
• Stress Can Be Your Shadow: The pressure to succeed can be intense. I remember balancing the needs of 35 new local businesses and 10 government agencies during social media campaigns. Talk about stress!

So, why the shift to the federal government?

Well, after 12 years of witnessing veterans struggle after leaving the military, I felt a calling to serve. Many veterans have a tough time transitioning to civilian life, especially if they don't have a pension, disability, or a federal job. I want to make a difference. I want to use my experience, my education, and my passion to help those veterans find their footing and build a successful future.

This federal role gives me the stability and the platform to do just that. I'm grateful for the opportunity to be a part of this dedicated team, and I'm excited to see what we can accomplish together.

My Team with FFSC teaches Life Skills in Transition and then Giving them a One on Once Counseling before they leave the military.  Here again with some outreach to our active-duty family members.

However, in my humble opinion as an entrepreneur and recently reinstated Global Career Development Facilitator (GCDF), Certified Master of Career Services (CMCS), Certified Career Services Provider (CCSP), I've noticed that some of the programs are a bit behind the times. It's understandable, given the bureaucracy involved, but it does concern me that some veterans might be getting outdated ways of delivering the good information they need and educators not inspiring them to move forward successfully. For example, the latest DODTAP program curriculum is from 2019, and it doesn't fully address some of the latest trends and innovations in the civilian job market. This means that after their workshop, some veterans might find themselves with slightly obsolete information BUT it is up to the educator to inspire them not like those I've met from 2014-2023, they don't remember and was not inspired by their "forgettable" uninspired educator. It's ALL up to the qualified Educators who experienced an actual military to civilian transition (no matter how good they deliver it with perfect information, how they deliver is what matters) and I'm hoping to contribute to bridging that gap and ensuring our veterans have access to the most current and relevant information possible.

But here's the thing: my entrepreneurial spirit is still burning bright. Once I've made a tangible impact on the lives of some of the veterans I'm working with (hopefully in the next 2-4 years as counselor and life skills coach / educator), I plan to dive back into the entrepreneurial world. I have big dreams, but ultimately, I leave it all in the hands of God. This Christmas season, I'm celebrating His resurrection with joy, gratitude, and a deep appreciation for the journey that has led me here.

Maligayang Pasko and a prosperous New Year to you all!